snapshots of an idle mind

November 29, 2005


Filed under: Uncategorized — sassinak @ 2:07 pm

i feel the stones again… ‘you can’t always get what you want’

i went off climbing yesterday and i had intentions. which i tossed out the window immediately because of a nebulous sense of ‘don’t do it’ and because someone really cool made it pretty clear that he wanted to climb with me. although at first i thought i was the excuse person for another girl… but i wasn’t. i have to think of a nickname better than ‘hot climber guy’ though. I want to call him butter because that’s how people describe the way he moves but that seems sorta lame.

so i did. and we had a great time y’all. this is someone easy to talk to that i can tease and who seems fully willing to tease me and order me about. why is being ordered about fun? you try doing it for a living and see how much you like it if someone does it to you.

two ways a lot or not at all. i’m an a lot. he took it well when i did it to him too which was cool. people who can dish it out but can’t take it get a bit wearing after a while.

so we climbed and she chucked us after a bit and frankly if i were her i would have chucked us also. but it was funny. i was trying not to be a third wheel so i would like go work my bouldering problem when it wasn’t my turn and i’d get summoned back for ‘teaching’ and whatever and i think we third wheeled her.

was a lot of fun anyway. [also i really like it when a person remembers previous conversations with you and refers back to them. shows they’re interested and paying attention and it’s nice. no, i’m not assuming he’s after me, just that he finds my company congenial]

and then we sat around with a couple of other climbers and it turns out there’s a party saturday and everyone is going. yes, a couple of my imaginary boyfriends are going for sure. screw this making decisions shit, i’ma gonna see what happens instead.

i knew about the party but i thought since i didn’t know the hosts that i wasn’t invited but they were all looking at me like ‘aren’t you going?’ so i made the ‘didn’t know i was invited’ shrug and they’re like ‘everyone is invited there’s flyers over there’ so i’m going.

it should be a lot of fun because the instructions are to wear bedroom clothing with kinky things encouraged.

now y’all have seen my hallowe’en pics and you know what my ‘kinky wardrobe’ looks like. well parts of it anyway. and i can’t do it because this is like professional level kink clothing not just funky lingerie from frederick’s of hollywood or something and i just don’t think i want to wear this level of kinkwear to a climbing party.

which leaves me my fuzzy blue pyjamas with sheep on them. i think i’ll wear a really hot and black tank top underneath and just lose the top or leave it open… maybe a hot coloured bra underneath. *snerk* maybe i’ll bring my crop.

opinions welcome of course.

at this point butter (no that doesn’t work, need a better nick) started asking me movement questions and i ended up lecturing them about their armpits and how to work their abs and what’s a better push up and… it’s horrible you guys, you cannot turn off the inner pilates instructor no matter how you try.

it’s fine when i go normally because she’s sort of dormant but he yanked her out. the funniest was the man with the massive jet lag trying to figure out this weird movement shit i was talking about. so i suggested he ask me when he’s awake… course if i was him i’d be afraid of me now. *chuckling*

and then there was some bouldering and we were pretty much the only two people in the part of the gym we were in and he was too tired to climb and i wasn’t so i started working some stuff and he had really fucking useful suggestions y’all.

this whole time i thought people were pushing their knee up and twisting to get height but that’s not what he does at all. he drops his other leg which forces his knee and hip up and then *boom* just like that you’ve gone up several feet.

funny thing is that it’s harder but so much better. so i found some new sore muscles today. and they are mother fucking sore but i think in the long run i’ve learned something crucial to my progress.

damm was a good night and a good day today!



  1. I have an active mind and an idle body.

    Comment by Gary Freedman — November 29, 2005 @ 2:31 pm | Reply

  2. that makes us polar opposites then :)

    although i confess my mind is never idle… when it feels bored i blog… hence snapshots :)

    Comment by sassinak — November 29, 2005 @ 2:43 pm | Reply

  3. I love parties where you dress up because you have an excuse to be something other than your everyday self.

    You should bring out the sexy stuff. It could never hurt. ;)

    Comment by SignGurl (Jenn) — November 29, 2005 @ 4:52 pm | Reply

  4. jenn professional dominatrixes … dominatrices? dommes get jealous of my stuff. this is not the right stuff to wear to this kind of party it really isn’t.

    at fetish night people are like ‘wow that shit is awesome’ and really really really skimpy/sexy/slutty … which is NOT a message i want to project because i’m really not that girl…

    but it is sorta tempting :)

    Comment by sassinak — November 29, 2005 @ 4:54 pm | Reply

  5. butter? hmmmm should i be offended this hot boy has kind of…well….taken my name?!! hehe

    take pics at the party :) i miss hot canadian men!

    Comment by da buttah — November 29, 2005 @ 5:31 pm | Reply

  6. You know, I know of some fairly hardcore rock climbing kinksters…

    just sayin’ is all.

    Comment by mightydoll — November 29, 2005 @ 5:56 pm | Reply

  7. doll: but i’m not a kinkster… i just like the clothes…

    you know climbers you haven’t introduced me to?

    i don’t have a digicam, i’ll see if i can borrow one… that said, i can’t call him butter cause it’s sorta lame and makes me think of you and that’s just weird!

    Comment by sassinak — November 29, 2005 @ 6:55 pm | Reply

  8. I do!

    You met the one at Hubris’ place and he makes no secrets of his proclivities, but I do in fact, know others.

    Don’t know if you know them or not, honestly.

    Comment by mightydoll — November 29, 2005 @ 7:14 pm | Reply

  9. Go for the jammies with hot underneath. That will kill ’em.

    I visited the climbing wall at the Y today…NICE…now to find someone to belay for me. Well, when I’m better.

    Comment by castufari — November 29, 2005 @ 8:18 pm | Reply

  10. doll: well he was a little high on himself and if it’s people he knows then ironically you probably know my ex and his friends… weird

    yeah i’m not particularly kinky although a little bondage is never a bad thing…

    cast: define hot underneath.

    you can boulder too but you learn faster mixing routes and bouldering :)

    Comment by sassinak — November 29, 2005 @ 8:31 pm | Reply

  11. sass-

    you can be a mild kinkster and get away with it.

    show up to the party gig and shred up teh menz… you can do it!

    Comment by factory_peasant — November 29, 2005 @ 9:01 pm | Reply

  12. This is pretty exciting Sass, mingling with the imaginary boyfriends!! Yes!!!!
    Photos are a must at this sort of party, as they will be hilarious and potentially incriminating later on.
    The cute sheep PJs are absolutely perfect, and I echo the call for ‘exciting’ underclothes that you can let peek out. Hot bras, etc. Definitely. You will knock ’em dead.
    Leather dominatrix suits are for third dates.

    Have a great time!!

    Comment by Johnny Canuck — November 29, 2005 @ 9:19 pm | Reply

  13. peasant: i don’t have any mild kink clothing dude. it’s all or nothing :)

    shred up the mens? how does one do that anyway?

    johnny: i know, imagine if i got a date, i’d like faint or something! actually i’m just stoked that they looked at me like ‘of COURSE you’re invited dumbass!’ :)

    i will attempt to take photos but it will be the same film as our hockey game is on. did we take any pics of both of us?

    okay sheep pjs it is! with a black tank top and a salmon coloured bra (look bubbles it’s a U) :)

    hee i love my domme clothing *grin*

    i’m nervous in a great way… although i hate getting excited about parties because then they’re a let down.

    Comment by sassinak — November 29, 2005 @ 11:25 pm | Reply

  14. sass: sounds like hot climber guy is into you, at least to me. be prepared to mount him at the party and clamber all over his body! LOL

    my suggestions for nicknames for him, if you dont’ wanna go with hot climber guy, or HCG:

    • Sherpa
    • Sir Edmund
    • Cliff (I keeeeeel me! LOL)
    • The Eiger Sanction

    have fun at the par-tay!

    Comment by DZER — November 30, 2005 @ 2:05 am | Reply

  15. dz: what makes you think he’s into me?

    hcg? *snerk!!*

    i get all but the last one. what’s the eiger sanction?

    i can’t call him hot climber guy, it mixes him up too easily with okcupid climber guy who was kind of a putz!

    Comment by sassinak — November 30, 2005 @ 6:10 am | Reply

  16. not to mention?


    you keeeeeel me too!

    Comment by sassinak — November 30, 2005 @ 7:40 am | Reply

  17. Yaay for good times spent with people you like…there is nothing better than quality time with someone you are digging. That “getting to know you” phase is such a blessing…if we could bottle that butterflies in stomach, I am sooooo happy to see you feeling and sell it, we’d be filthy rich :)


    Comment by Natalia — November 30, 2005 @ 9:39 am | Reply

  18. nat: yeah it’s excellent. the cooler part here is that not only am i digging on some folks but i’m also making friends with a community that i really enjoy.

    so it’s a win win which is extra happy making :)

    Comment by sassinak — November 30, 2005 @ 9:56 am | Reply

  19. I’ve met your ex a handful of times. He always struck me as a nice guy, amicable and friendly. The other climbers I know I think probably run in the same circles as I know them through the same circles on MY end of the social spectrum.

    That said, I’m perpetually surprised not only by which people know each other, but also by which people DON’T know each other.

    The perils of socialbutterflyism. You never know where you might land.

    Comment by mightydoll — November 30, 2005 @ 3:13 pm | Reply

  20. yeah he tends to strike people that way.

    i don’t particularly wish to be anywhere near his social circle [especially since he still takes off if he hears i’m coming] so you are hereby forgiven from ever introducing me to climbers in that group :)

    toronto is a far smaller city than anyone would ever believe!


    Comment by sassinak — November 30, 2005 @ 3:26 pm | Reply

  21. The Eiger Sanction is a movie featuring Clint Eastwood as a government assassin hired to do one more job. He has to perform a “sanction” on a Russian killer during a mountain climbing expedition, but doesn’t know who it is. Pretty cool 1970s flick.

    and Hot Climber Guy is a big difference from Putzy Climber Guy from OK Cupid LOL

    Comment by DZER — November 30, 2005 @ 6:14 pm | Reply

  22. dzer: oh that sounds like a lot of fun actually. i’m leaning toward hcg actually… cause that is what i initially called him, it seems only fair somehow that he gets to be the hot climber in perpetuity (i mean he’s still fucking hot after all) … it’s just he’s not just a climber is all. i’m trying to figure out something more pertinent to himself.

    i still want to know why you think hcg is into me…

    heh.. he was putzy yeah. not bad on a wall but seriously high on himself sometimes. (hee he’s pocg forever!! *lmao*)

    Comment by sassinak — December 1, 2005 @ 1:24 am | Reply

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